After her last couple of interviews it appears that Jennifer Lopez is not gonna speak about Marc Anthony no mo. She is now saying that she wants to keep her personal life with Marc private for the sake of the kids. I get that. I respect that, so is this boy toy of hers supposed to be a distraction? Eye roll.

Despite what everyone is saying, J.Lo did work hard to save her marriage. She told Vanity Fair that “Sometimes we don’t realize that we are compromising ourselves. To understand that a person is not good for you, or that that person is not treating you in the right way, or that he is not doing the right thing for himself – if I stay, then I am not doing the right thing for me. I love myself enough to walk away from that now.” And now she’s asking NOT to explain this quote.

It was during an interview on Today that J.Lo said that the Vanity Fair article was all she is going to say ever about the divorce. Too bad we aren’t all mind readers. “Everything I wanted to say about the divorce I said in that article. And Marc and I agreed that we’re not gonna talk about it publicly again because it really is our personal lives. We have children and it’s something that we just have to respect and keep sacred. It’s not the easiest thing in the world but we handled it with a lot of grace, a lot of caring and a lot of love.”

And even though they decided to carry on with the reality show Q’Viva together, they do get along for the most part, but still have their little moments on the set. She added, “Marc and I were friends before we got married. We were friends for years, and we always loved each other. And we always worked together, so it wasn’t an unnatural thing for us to continue working together… It’s really a passion project for us. Even though it has its difficult moments, it’s still a great thing that we’re doing, that we feel that we’re doing. We have our moments, we’re human, but, at the end of the day, there is real love there and there is a family there, and that comes first.”

So despite wanting to shake the guy, she will do anything for a paycheck, even if it means having to work with the guy she can’t stand to look at.

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